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You'll also want to prepare ahead of time, especially if it's your first time, to ensure that you're clean and that it's not uncomfortable. Some books will teach you all you need to know about preparing for the act before ever trying it on your guy.
Some males, especially inexperienced guys, appear to have a fixation with anal sex. It's a checkbox for many of these guys, and something they can boast about to their pals. Dealing with this pressure might be a great turn off if you aren't very interested but your boyfriend is.
Many women are unwilling to learn how to have anal intercourse. Instead, they're simply doing it to please their partner. In fact, they may despise or even hate the notion of anal intercourse, rather than merely being uninterested in it.
This is one of the most common myths. The anus and lower rectum are the areas with the least feces. The most important thing after anal sex is to wash your penis to prevent bacteria from entering the vagina from another environment.
It should be remembered that a well-oiled finger should first slide into the anus so that the muscles are gradually prepared to insert the penis. Remember that the goal is not to stretch the anus, but to allow it to expand slowly.
Use lubricants, oils. The third condition for pleasurable anal sex is the use of various lubricants. Various oils and other wonders can be bought in sex shops.
Don't forget about sexually transmitted diseases. One of the most common mistakes is that safety is forgotten during anal sex. There is as much chance of developing various sexually transmitted diseases as during vaginal sex. If you have anal sex, you should not immediately continue to have oral or vaginal sex! However, if you want to enjoy other forms of sex, then after anal sex, the penis must be washed with warm water and soap.
Take your time !. The worst thing you can do during anal sex is hurry. Do not allow your partner to insert your penis deeply and quickly into your buttocks immediately. As a result of the rush, anal sex may seem unpleasant to a woman and she may never want to repeat it again. If anal sex is slow and gentle - it will undoubtedly be more pleasant.
During anal sex, you may not have to worry about a woman getting pregnant, but you should think about safe sex one way or another. Use condoms (it is recommended to lubricate them beforehand)! After orgasm, make sure that the condom does not slip and that the seed does not leak in an unnecessary direction.