I have endless respect for girls who say what they want. And do not hesitate to discuss actions in bed. It is clear that everyone has their own habits, their own manners, and in general you cannot please everyone. But we cannot read minds! Why not say directly: "Dear, I like it when you ....", and further point by point. But no, almost all girls love to play silent. And what does this lead to? By the way, my wife won me over by always saying what she wants. On the first date, she said: "To you or to me?" It worked! Globally, my wife differs from my previous passions in that she knows: a) how to please me; b) how to please yourself; c) how to tell me about it so that I understand, without any "well, uh, guess yourself". With my eyes closed, I will distinguish her from any woman. By her smell (and she does not use perfume), by her nipples (she always runs them over my chest), by the way she breathes before the "start". It seems to be nothing special, but it is these simple and at the same time such important things for me that make my wife unique.
The idea that we are not telepathic is not new. In fact, each of us has our own ideas about what sex should be, how to behave with a man.